How to Have a Threesome
How will you benefit from this article on how to have a threesome? Simple. After reading it, you will be able to have threesomes. Read this article, take the right action, and enjoy the results. Life is beautiful.
Good deal? Let’s begin.
Actually, whether you suspected it or not, many times in your life you were just a few words/sentences/moments away from having a threesome.
If you would have known WHAT to say at the right moment – you could have gotten it.
However, before you were blind. From now on - you will be able to SEE and to KNOW how to have a threesome.
BRINGING UP THE SUBJECT OF A THREESOME
First, how do you bring up the subject of a threesome? Simple.
As any female reader knows (and male ones will learn in a few moments) – ALL women have bisexual tendencies. Read this article on female bisexuality to get deeper knowledge of this intriguing subject.
This will add a valuable piece to your knowledge of how to have a threesome. Done that? Fine. Let’s continue.
Knowing that at least 70% of women from time to time dream of at least SOME intimate play with other women, you will present this as a fulfilling of HER dream.
Important note: Do not use the words “bisexual” or even mention bisexuality when you talk to your partner. In modern society, this word has too much of a negative connotation. Read this article on negative social programming to find out more about “the Matrix” and male-female dynamics.
Find out if your woman ever had such desires. Be cool. “I just learned that many women are actually erotically attracted to other women,” may be a good beginning. Do not be bounded to this phrase, though. Depending on your maturity and on how long two of you know each other – you can easily find an appropriate way to introduce the subject.
The key in knowing how to have a threesome is your mindset - you are doing it FOR HER. And in fact - you should be! Do not push too hard or be over-excited if she responds positively. Communicate that you are open-minded enough to allow such a fantasy to come true for her.
Realize that if you propose things from a wrong angle - your woman’s first thought will be, “Ouch, I am not good enough for him any more.” She will start doubting herself, become jealous, etc.
These are absolutely logical and understandable consequences. And they are totally inappropriate here. So do not make an ass of yourself.
HEARING HER ANSWER
Threesome will be another way to increase your MUTUAL happiness and fulfillment. Learning how to have a threesome means also learning to listen.
Therefore, be respectful towards her answer. If she says “No” or indicates that this subject never came to her mind and she is NOT into women – respect it and NEVER bring this subject up again.
If she expresses any interest towards the idea of a threesome – you will often hear that she wanted to try but was afraid to get one-on-one in bed with another girl.
This implies that if a man (this time it's YOU) would be next to her in bed – she would feel much better and at ease. She might be willing then to give it a try. Understand this point and take on a role of a GUIDE.
Become who you actually were destined to be – an EXPERIENCED and KNOWLEDGEBLE lover. The one who will take her by the hand and LEAD towards fulfillment of her hidden desires.
Important note: If she says “Yes” just for you - better discontinue the subject. This is another secret of knowing how to have a threesome. She should be excited and looking forward to this new intimate experience. Do not go for it if she does it only to please you. This will bring various negative issues into your relationship later on.
HOW TO BEHAVE WHEN SHE AGREES
- Do not become over-excited. Stay cool. Behave as if this is most usual happening. After all – you are doing it FOR HER. Don't worry, both of you understand that YOU are also going to enjoy the experience.
- Do not stay on the subject too long.
- Do not talk about other women too much. This makes your woman feel uncomfortable. Be cool. Concentrate on HER. She is your Princess, right? Other girls are there only to ADD some bits and pieces to your mutual happiness.
SETTING UP THE RULES OF YOUR THREESOME
Find out HOW she wants your threesome to take place. Does she want to play with another girl and you are only supposed to watch? What are YOU allowed to do? Is it OK if you will do things with another girl too? How far can you go? Petting? Kissing? Penetration?
Learning how to have a threesome includes learning the importance of communication.
- Express your own ideas but - first of all - be considerate. Listen. Remember, the right mindset – you are doing the whole thing for HER.
Realize that if your first threesome goes well – you will have plenty of opportunities to expand your freedom of action in the future. But if it goes wrong – there might be no second chance for you.
Therefore, stay in control but show some flexibility and obey the rules when it comes to action.
- Knowing how to have a threesome also means paying attention to health and safety! Use condoms with your new girl. Take time and educate yourself about risks and health guidelines when it comes to threesomes. Learn the safety rules with regard to sexual play between two girls.
- Let the third person know that both of you practice safe sex. Better, do it in advance to avoid any misunderstandings.
Note: An important part of learning how to have a threesome is your knowledge of all do's and dont's DURING the threesome sex. Read this article. It is very important info. Ignorance here may cost you your relationship. Period.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT PERSON FOR THREESOME
Once you both agree on the rules, you can start choosing the right person for your threesome. This is an easy part of how to have a threesome. There are plenty of options to choose from.
- You can go about it the same way a single guy would go looking for a girl. Clubs, bars, all sorts of private parties are excellent places to go looking for a new girl. Try different approaches.
For example, being direct and honest works fine for me. When one of my girlfriends sees someone she likes – I just approach that person and simply tell her WHY I am here tonight and that my girlfriend finds her attractive. I introduce ladies to each other right after that and we take things from there.
- Another way I often meet new playmates is this: my girlfriends like to chat up other girls. Since it is very easy for two girls to establish initial connection – they can bring up the subject of kissing each other, playing with other women, or simply “being into girls” quickly and easily.
That "sexy" talk may happen either before or after my girlfriends introduce those women to me. After that – everything depends on circumstances and calibration. Both things will come to you with time and experience.
- Trust your girl's intuition. they might instinctively know how to have a threesome than you do sometimes.
- If you are in the beginning of your path – you may want something safer and simpler. In such case, your woman may already have an idea of someone in her social circle that she likes.
Be careful with your close social circle though. Keep your new project away from your friends - at least in the beginning.
- Most simple solution – take an escort girl. The best option is when one of your friends can address you to a girl s/he sees often.
Do not make big eyes here. We are all adults. If someone does not read this website and does not go out to apply this knowledge – chances are great that s/he is seeing an escort on regular basis. Simply try to ask around for such reference.
If you don’t find any “recommended” escort girl – choose one from a reputable escort agency. Make sure you both like her. Make also sure that part of her services includes playing with a couple as a second girl. Good escort girls know about safety, female sexuality, and can greatly assist you in your first threesome experience.
Your partner will have zero jealousy factor here since you both know that this is strictly professional and you will never see this girl again. (Unless you both decide to do so…)
HOW TO BEHAVE AFTER THE THREESOME
- Do not bring up another woman repeatedly after the threesome. This will hurt your partner's feelings.
- Right frame of thinking: this was something you both shared and enjoyed. Any time you speak about that special experience after it took place – you both feel closer and more intimate.
Discuss your experience. Find out how she felt during the threesome. How she feels afterwards. Change the rules if necessary.
Bottom line: enjoy, cherish, celebrate, and live a LIFE together!