Dating Ideas for Smart People
Even before talking about dating ideas, here is a very important realization: there is no need to take someone on a date in a traditional sense of the word.
Ask any girl how she feels when some stranger invites her on a dinner date.
Two people who hardly know each other sit on opposite sides of the table and chew some food. What if your stomach makes some noises?
What if she gets a piece of meat stuck between her teeth? Been there? Sound funny but familiar, doesn’t it?
Both people feel awkward. However, this is what society offers everyone to do as a first option. This is one of typical mainstream dating ideas. Why? This encourages consumerism. Spend some money. Buy a dinner. Buy some flowers. Just buy. Buy into false paradigm that to be liked by attractive person you have to purchase stuff.
Buy cars, houses, cloths, perfumes for yourself. Dinners, diamonds, flowers for others. Even before knowing them well. Read this article on negative social programming and healthy relationships and this one on basic dating rules to avoid those pitfalls.
So the real question here is this: does she really VALUE that dinner or she is more interested in getting to know YOU, who you are, and what you stand for in life?
Read my other articles, talk to a bunch of attractive women, and realize that one thing matters – YOUR PERSONALITY. Not your money, your car, or your watch. Forget that false paradigm.
Modern society teaches us to assign much more value to things than they really cost. That's the core of the majority of the mainstream dating ideas. Sentimental value of an expensive bunch of roses is supposed to be very high.
However, if you ask any woman (apart from so-called “gold-diggers”) – she will tell you that a simple self-made CD with your favorite music will mean much more for her than any expensive flowers or the most luxurious dinner. Because it comes from the heart.
The truth is that you do not have to take anyone on expensive dates. You can simply choose some activity where two of you have the greatest chance to get to know each other. In fact, the best thing to do is simply make an adventure of your daily tasks and take your date along.
When I go for choosing a new venue for my event, I take my date along. There is no need for any exhaustive planning. She is getting to see most beautiful hotels, apartments, and residences. When else could she get such a chance?
I love interior design and for my seminars and workshops, I choose very inspiring and beautiful locations.
She gets to see what I do and what I like first hand. Between the locations, we have plenty of time to get to know each other and to get a cup of coffee on the way.
Do not frame this as a “Date." Just say that you are planning to do this activity ANYWAY and let the woman decide if she wants to follow.
So here is a list of creative dating ideas that are interesting, light, fun, and serve best your interest as well as your girl's.
Adopt the abundance mindset. There are so many opportunities around particularly after you visited this website and got all the knowledge including this Dating Guide for Men and this Dating Advice for Women.
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